There’s no doubt that woman are the top blockers and for good reason but I’ve found many woman abuse the function and are unaware of how bad it makes them look not to mention the bad karma they get.

Many many members of free dating sites have gone through this a number of time - the old block user function.  It can be highly irritating. Let’s talk about the right way to block people. I say the right way because blatant insults are not called for and woman are the biggest culprits.

For starters ladies, remember you’re on a dating site -  a site about dating. If you act as if you’ve never saw a guy before in your life or that your Ms. Goody Two Shoes then, well, you should probably be on Facebook as dating sites are just for that - dating. When a guy messages you he does so as he is supposed to do - on a dating site. Get it?

Now if he messages you 80 more times after you’ve said nicely that you’re not interested then of course he should be blocked. But till then.

The reason most woman block men

The main reason block men rather than simply respond nicely to them is cowardice. They are afraid of insulting the guy and for good reason. When a lot of guys get the “I’m not really interested” response they go buck wild! Not good. This alone usually causes most woman to refrain from a nice and respectable truth (that she’s not interested) and just block and hope the guy goes away - soon.

So what’s the answer to the blocking dilemma?

I have the answer. Woman please paste the following disclaimer into your message. Make sure to paste it into the top, just before you describe yourself so the guys can actually read it first.

Disclaimer: I’ve joined this dating site in order to meet someone and not to be insulted. Just as you have a choice and preference in a woman, I so do in a man and if I find that you’re not one of my choices please treat me the way you’d want to be treated by a woman whom you found wasn’t your choice. If I delete your message I’m really not worth your time in the first place.  Thank you for your understanding.

This should work and if every guys starts seeing this on every dating site profile they’re going to get the message.

If they don’t read it and they become rude and send insulting messages please, simply block them and report them. Eventually they’ll learn. I promise.

Original Article: Woman Top Abusers Of Member Blocking On Free Dating Sites